'Sup boys? You're a little late responding to that bat signal, aren't you?
There's a good exercise here in reading what you're responding to before you start typing. I didn't say anything about people wanting their partners to strip for others or give them lapdances. I said (in response to another post or series of posts) that a stripper's job doesn't make her less worthy of being a partner - she is, after all, still a woman, and being a stripper does not define her. Nor can all strippers be tarred with the same brush. I also said that there are insecurities and levels of trust that might make someone see a stripper as less worthy of being a partner.
Some people have the maturity, security, and trust in their partner to allow her to do what she wants to do (or maybe needs to do) for a living. They allow her to do her job as a dancer because they trust her, whereas those who don't have that trust might be thinking she is doing more than just dancing (or stripping, depending on the bar). They don't trust her to know where the line is, and/or to not cross it.
There's also a difference between liking her doing it, and not liking it but tolerating it because you have that trust in her.