Guess I'll have to start a new file and see, I was more or less just perturbed by the one single option having such a drastic difference between the two but had no evidence to support otherwise (unless forum provided) that I could get in or out of that line of "submissive" mc on the opposing path.
Also unrelated to reply, wasn't complaining about femdom specifically (I dont mind a little femdom, but "submissive trait" is a big mind) I just dont care for submissiveness, however, as said above it was more the split between the two, of how I got locked into a submissive MC from picking one singular option difference because of the path divergence. But I didnt want to have to restart a third time to confirm my suspicion (already had to restart to play the update) so I came to the forum to mention how that one splitting path lead to such drastic different outcomes and how I found it a bit weird since on the "hope" path you're denying her, but on the "dark(?)" path you're accepting her. For people that are seemingly confused of what I was originally saying.
It just comes off confusing to me as a reader, that I had such a massively different outcome with option A vs option B although everything leading up to both points was exactly the same, I feel like people are missing that part more than anything. All the choices were the same, outside the little bit of differences between the paths, but I had way more flexibility on A than B but it felt counter-intuitive in the grand scheme.
(For even more context, if only that choice mattered (which in my original post it was the only differentiating factor), if you would deny her on Route B, wouldn't you be more likely to pull your finger away, or try to resist her generally vs Route A where you more or less accept her, and atleast at the start find yourself more curious about what she's up to and what she's trying to do rather than being so guarded around her, thats where my logic goes. Why on Route A is MC so jumpy around her, but on Route B Mc's just like "eh i'll let this play out" lol.)