Ivy is pretty hard to trigger. She must wear the skimpy bikini and be in the "pool" of triggerable events. Which means she must have at least 70-80 lust and and 60-70 love i suppose.
Then try to walk to your room as often as possible (with half an hour time delay of course) - my experience has shown that those events can happen at every time, but often between dinner and bar opening - and hope that the event is activated. There ist no certainity to trigger this all the time.
If you you want to reach the second stage of the event then you have to take the blue pill beforehand. Pray you get an errection otherwise you will be considered to small to be fit for Ivy
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