I'm currently planning my first adult game and was wondering how important gameplay is to you guys.
Personally, I'm not a fan of games with almost no or bad gameplay even though they have good sexual content / story.
Examples for the choices:
5 - an adult themed management or rpg game
1 - a classic Visual Novel
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Everyone has their own biases about what they think makes the best game or what content you should put in or what engine to use, etc. Those of us that are active in various threads skew results. We are a very small minority of the people who come to this site. We are a minority of those who actually post in the thread. Those who do post, mostly post in the threads of games/content they are interested in - not a wide variety of threads. People who post are a minority of those who come to the site. Thousands of people come to F95 daily to download and play games, but never post. The people who come here to download are a minority of all NSFW game players.
You are getting responses from a minority opinion of a minority of posters of a minority of site visitors of a minority of people who play NSFW games.
That's not to say some of the responses aren't good - there are some great responses. However, asking personal choices of what people like or dislike, self-inserting or not, 2d or 3d, etc. - you're not getting a representative sample of the NSFW game playing public - whether free players, players who pay retail, or players who subscribe on patreon and similar sites.
A game needs to be developed with the creator's vision on what THEY would like to play if someone made a game exclusively for them with their own likes and desires in mind.