So if you did fall head over heels for some girl, and then she had some past experience with some older dude, that would be a major put off? And here I thought if you hook up with someone, it's the present and the future that counts. Everyone got a past. It's not like their past encounters crawl into bed with you (unless there is some blossoming std's going on).
And yeah, creepy old men freak me out too.. lol. (but so does creepy old cougars....)
When you see a young girl with a older man, its like "she just with him for the money (whatever). When you see the same with a younger girl with a older woman.. hmm ponders.
I could be walking out on a limb here, but.. I know quite a few girls prefer older guys due to guys their own age a lot of the time being total douches.. There is a slight difference between.. older and OLDER though..
There is a huge age gap between me and my girlfriend, she was born in 74 and I was born in 92 ... quite a lot older. We;ve been together over 3 years now.
I'm also earning more so it's not a money thing.
I'm not talking past history I meant recent encounters that I know of. I had a date one time not long before I started this relationship and she had just broke up with a friend of her grandads, he was 68. Shit like that ... just eww. Didn't even finish the date, just noped out.
By creepy older men I don't mean 40's - early 60's where some women find men to be more ... shall we say "distinguished" because that's usually when a guy is at his most stable in life and some women find that stability attractive as well as the silver fox look.
I'm talking guys in their late 60's and up, full on wrinkled prunes with women in their late teens and early 20's. Just no.
If she had done one of the other teachers it would have been fine but it had to be the creepy old guy, so yeah that pretty much killed that character for me.
Wasn't so bad with the train girl, I got to stop that one.
So, whats the difference between a girl that slept with 100 guys, or a guy that slept with 100 girls? A girl who sleep with multiple partners get branded a slut. A guy sleeping with many girls, get a pat on the shoulder.. guys being guys..
If people just interested in "pure virgin" partners with no past history, experience or baggage what so ever. I think that is a set up for a giant fail more than anything.
That is one thing i'm not bothered by.
Like most people I love sex. I like it when people enjoy sex. I think everyone should get as much as they can before deciding to settle down. I'm not bothered if a girl has had 1 or 1000 partners as long as she's happy.
Like you say, everyone has a history.