Definitely interesting, DoL is in my opinion a milestone in regards to how sandbox type games can (and imho should) work. Lots of different things to do to earn money, great variety of NPCs, some actual sweet & romantic moments, and a tad bit of humor to go with the darker parts of the game.
Visually I find your game appealing in it's own right, from what I can tell it also comes with the (again, just my opinion) necessary options to set up the game according to the player's preferences.
That said so I will have to say as of right now the lewd aspects don't interest me in the slightest, since there's no stuff with female npcs.
Of course it's perfectly fine that you do things the way you like and at your own pace. From what you explained in the Thread though it sounds as if, later in development, that will change & Cave Party will allow the player to just set the npc distribution?
If that is correct - yay! If it isn't - fair enough, and definitely good luck with your game nevertheless.