Yeah I prefer games that take a more dating sim style approach where you can choose one character to romance and not be forced into a relationship or sex scenes with the others. I know it's much harder to do and takes a lot of work, but well not every game needs to do what I like.
I know most other people probably don't give a shit and want to fuck every character in the game but I really hate it.
I appreciate your view.
But as I said: I'm trying to tell a story here.
Look at it like a movie ... where the main events are set. But here you can change some of them.
But not the surrounding or the main characters.
If it's not the right thing for you ... Preferences differ.
I tried to create a VN which I think is I would like the best.
A Sim would be a completely different approch.
And as a beginner in rendering AND renpy that's a "No!".
Besides it's not really my thing.