Hi Rogue,
That's a lot to tackle but I would just say I would hope all games are fantasy. If people can't really separate that from reality, they probably had issues well before playing any game on any site anywhere. You sometimes hear that a violent video game for example caused say a school shooting but I tend to believe it was many more issues and variables that impacted that well before they played any game. Millions play that same game and never do anything at all, so it's hard to say that particular variable was the key one, but of course you never know.
Also, the only thing I would say about some reality based femdom is that unfortunately I have personally seen some very cruel women (I can't speak for men as much because I mostly have interacted with well off women in ways that they let loose and say things casually when alone and men would never do the same around me because that is probably men only stuff) that are well off, and some people in this world are great...and some aren't. For example, one aspect of this game later will involve a mining operation overseas. I have personal knowledge about a lot of this from life experience and know absolutely firsthand how callous some people can be, but this of course is just a porn game and not a big focus, etc. If you can't separate playing this game from reality or it bothers you at all, maybe this isn't the game for you, and that's ok. Nothing is for everyone, and it should be fun. If it's not fun, play something else, there are so many games on this and other sites.
If you have read my thread, I hope I have made it clear that I am going to have both a dom path but also sub path. However, I will have more sub tracks than one (from very mild to very brutal) and with dom I won't have as much variety. So maybe think of it as 65/35 or 70/30 ratio perhaps. I have currently 15 endings in my head, and about 9-11 are kind of sub based (it varies based on character relationships) and 4-5 are more dom based if that helps.