There are some pattern, but my choice of words were bad, i mean you can counter with skill, weapon, and mostly gear, and item you will put on, always look description of gear, item, and weapon some of them give "elemental" protection, to avoid magenta, debillation, brain dead...
Anyway don't forget the point of the game is to loose many time, cause youre the katalist of power of succubi, everyone one wanna want you in the end i guess, but first you need to fight until you know your ennemy and you get enought power to defeat them, happy for you the battle is mostly about sex and femdom, this game is perfect as game and femdom, you will never get soft lock(onlymacky orad but nobody care, too much complex and bugged for nothing)
Farm, fight, grind, look all item descritpion and weapon, infuse every essence you can, don't be afraid to run the game to "skip" some night, or just farm every succube one night to become the imba alpha who still gonna kneel for some succubus ass and feet or more
The attack is the best def, sometime you will need hard control and hard fight, but sometime if you do enought dmg you can take the risk to never protect and go full damage, even if you finnish with one hp and all your army is dead, the victory is your
I always end with magic essence, ice club, i change my element according to the succubus i fight, but it's mostly fire or electricity, max dmg and control are the best