Can anyone provide a guide in what order we should do the events so as not to block any women?
Stories are interwoven. Characters know one another outside of your scene events with them. They chat, text, facetime, and may tell secrets or gossip.
We know many players are used to games where you pursue one love interest to her conclusion then pick another. But this is a story-based novel format with ongoing events for every character in the Task Journal. There are no deadlines, only the earliest possible programmed "Day" when events are capable of starting. Those events can happen after the "Day" listed.
The 2 reasons we place alternate character events as requirements in addition to the earliest possible "Day" are:
1. To prevent spoiler discussions in follow-up events by characters before the prerequisite event has been played through.
2. To prevent the 3 main plot twist events from happening before the rest of the character stories have caught up with that main event. They need to have certain people in specific places emotionally and physically to trigger the main event, which involves them in some way.
The spoiler situation you mention is not on a timer at all. It is a CHOICE clearly marked when you enter a home and find a photo.