After sifting through 3 billion posts asking about NTR and whoring, finally found an answer specific to what I looking for, so wanted to make a post on it. Hopefully if someone has a similar question, they'll encounter this response first in their search.
So, in conclusion: The NTR from a game perspective is AVOIDABLE. The NTR from a path perspective is NOT AVOIDABLE. In another words, if you CHOOSE the DARK path, you cannot avoid the NTR/Whoring. On the flip side, if you CHOOSE the LIGHT path, you won't have to worry about NTR at all. It won't exist.
If, like me, you have an interest in corruption/slavery/heavy male dom but are generally repulsed by NTR/Whoring/Sharing AND have NO general interest in a warm fuzzy path, then don't bother with this game. It's not for you.
EDIT: Do read the dev's reply immediately following this post for more clarification.
On the other hand, if a conventional vanilla path (with a few "twists") interests you or you are okay with whoring/sharing, you'll likely find this game rather enjoyable.
To each their own. Good luck to the devs!