I'm the same kind of sucker for games like these too so we're in the same boats of ideal taste's, Lilith's throne is absolute peak for me at this time simply because of how it presents itself with the freedom given, customisation options and absolute power you have given enough time in a playthrough, I haven't played BDCC because personally Anthropomorphic animals aren't my cup of tea in the porn game sphere (No offense to the furry fandom!)
There is another game called
Degrees of Lewdity that's alright but it's whole gameplay loop revolves around:
>go outside
>get raped
>rinse and repeat your entire playthrough
Absolutely no options (or just very few if any) to be dominant in every sexual scenario presented within that game.
Maybe some day there will be a Lilith's Throne successor, that or Innoxia finally gets the game done; I'm fine with whatever option comes first.