I get you, if the sex scenes doesnt feel degrading, forced or humiliating it doesnt cut it for me either. Problem is, most people dont like that fetish. Most reviews of games like these get very harsh critique when you lose control of the character and sex is involuntary. Some get very disgusted if the guy is old, fat or ugly. And to add to the unfortunate pile up, Patreon also doesnt like those themes, probable reason Combin is out.
Some game developers have been vary cautious to sneak in those themes very carefully if at all. Some just have an option to opt out of the extreme scenes, like in the game Sexpool, which you just click the pass out option to avoid a brutal rape scene. Others warn you in game that choosing an option would lead to an extreme scene. These might be a good compromise workaround that might save these games. Albeit I have to admit it breaks the game immersion for me somewhat.
Another problem for me is the "lose the fight to see rape" scenes. Some lead to game over, and those are the worst. Others, the fights are so easy, that losing a fight on purpose feels like voluntary sex, that doesnt cut it either. At least in Karryns Prison game, you can up the difficulty to Prisoner mode, and you will lose fights most the time despite trying to do your best. Now those lead to some awesome defeat scenes, and you keep fighting thru the defeat position to even a worst outcome, that was very refreshing.
And then theres the Blackmailed route to get humiliated and "forced" into sex or very degrading acts. I really enjoy this path and seems less controversial than outright rape, thus avoiding the Bummer Police. I very much enjoy the game Anna Exciting Affection
https://f95zone.to/threads/anna-exciting-affection-unofficial-renpy-remake-v1-8-osmcuser132.8482/ . Sometimes the pride and narrow minded goals of the main character are the most forceful chains that lead her into events that are very humiliating and unenjoyable. The scenes with her being blackmailed by her Office Boss and the Pub Owner are one of the best experienced in a game for me.
For now i will keep my holy grail quest for games of these types and will include any good ones or ones with a few great scenes in this thread.