funnythings3785
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That is my understanding as well... but even if he did know, keep in mind his character, how he has "learned" to respect her boundaries to the point of extremism. He knows that Lacey already said "I am going to do this... I will return when I have completed this that I am doing" and... he has "reached out" to verify her intent and with the messages, he sees she has read them and so he may have understood that as "allow her to do what she wanted to do, give her space... she asked for this and she knows because she read my responses".Ok. Unless I missed something on my run, MC does not know where she is attending college, she won't reply to his messages, and he doesn't know about any other friends she had at home to ask... ...how on earth could anyone be expected to go "save" her from an unknown place--a place that she went to so she could learn to stand on her own two feet (a reason not to interfere)?
This is my point, there is a very "narrow" argument to be made that "well, duh... he should have gone anyway!", but then.. the MC doesn't think like this, he adjusts to Lacey as she requires... and by reading his responses, not responding, it is reasonable for him to assume... this is what she wants... for him to... keep waiting... to be on hold as she does what she claimed she set out to do.
Is it rational to the normal person? No. Is it for him? I would say yes. He is merely doing what he was instructed to do in order to keep her in a state she is comfortable with. I mean, if she were in pain, if she were having issues, would she not respond in any way? He sent her a 100 messages, certainly if she needed something, she could respond in ANY way? I mean... if she simply responded with "iowqueoinfqo" I can guarantee he would have set out to find her and help her. She responded with nothing, but he knew she read it... she must not want him to come... she must not want him to do anything, he should just wait until she does need something.
That is what I got from the situation, but maybe I am wrong.