and yes it is ntr people saying it isn't ntr cause they are not in a relationship yet is #1 cuck excuse on the cuck excuse list.
Maybe don't come in so hot and angry about something that hasn't even been said in response to you yet.

I'm neutral on this type of stuff, but imagine if someone came into a full-harem game and said something like that in the reverse?
"Before anyone responds, no, it is not NTR. People saying that being real about this are 'cucks' is the #1 greedy prick reasoning on the greedy prick list. It's also the #1 male insecurity excuse on the insecure baby list."
Would you assume someone jumping on a thread with that type of statement were trying to
avoid some fight that hadn't even begun yet? You could've easily said something in a much more neutral way to get a far better response: "Searched the thread and could not find a clear answer if sister BJ with that other dude is avoidable as in we can stop it before it starts or not." Instead, you entered the thread with, "Let's start some shit!" [sigh]