tuShua
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It's nice that you have a mature perspective, it's commendable. But yeah, there are people who are like that that are quick to judge, either young people or those who have "not seen it all". But just give them time, they'll eventually learn it as the grow thru life. And if they don't, or simply refuse to learn, then don't worry about it, you won't lose anything. Mental issue is a serious problem and people should not take it likely nor be quick to judge or ridicule because they themselves haven't experienced it nor did they ever know what the person has went thru. Sometimes we need to try to put ourselves in the shoes of others. While it is true that respect is earned not asked, it is also a fact that respect is a basic and common courtesy that everyone should learn and apply.Everybody can obviously still feel about her whatever they will, but I think a lot of folks here have been either too quick to make assumptions or highly reductive of Ashley's motives in doing what she does. Given that her own father molested her throughout her teenage years, even more than before I am unsurprised by her choice to be a stripper. It's not uncommon for victims of sexual abuse of various types and degrees to end up later embracing a lifestyle that isYou must be registered to see the linksor at least that leans heavily in that direction.
I'm hopeful that things will change for her and she'll be able to pull out of it eventually (especially if she's eventually able to be accepted at Cordale), but for now she's struggling to deal with things in her own way. It's not good for her, and it's not the answer to things, but it's what's in her head right now. She may actually feel that way too, but I think her saying things like "being a waitress is boring" was just an excuse she used to explain why she would begin stripping in the first place.
Because sometimes people judge and criticize too far for the sake of it without thinking of how the other person would feel or how it may affect them, that they fail to see that they themselves have become the trash. Just sayin