Pretty much what
vitrelladonella said.
From what you said, I'm not sure you know how Patreon subscription actually works.
Or you've been poisoned by those who exploits such model to extract money (one of the worst thing they did is pay-walling contents behind subscription).
- No matter how you think you are "investing in these projects", You are not.
- There're no contract signed to guarantee an agreed outcome. You might as well not getting anything you expected in return.
- No matter how you think you are part of the development cuz you gave the dev bunch of money, You are not.
- You can give feedback, you might even influence the project.
- BUT it's ultimately up to the Developers to make the call and do the work. If it's aligned with your interests, great. If it's not, bad luck for you.
It's "parasocial" cuz it's "delusional power fantasy". I don't even understand how you can compare these to Investment Industry.
Tho I agree with your "Without accountability, nothing would get done...". Everyone only acts with their own best interests.
The sad truth is we are not able to held anyone accountable in gaming industry due to lackin' regulations. (Sick of Big companies sell overpriced and unfinished games yet?)
And that's one of many reasons why there are so many Abandonware, besides "dev burnout due to unhealthy environment", "developing game is difficult, requires way more skills than dev can handle", etc.
And what's all this to do with Lustful Desires you ask?
It's just a porn game, if you don't like the state of the development, just move on with your life. You can't hold Hyao "accountable" for anything cuz there's never an agreement signed in the first place. Nor can he you.