Giuseppe crossdressing being one of Nikos' most cherished memories to a point his daughters know it inside-out is too much of a Chekhov's gun. Nikos has dated a lot of women since that day and they all led to failed relationships. Now that he's somehow found a person he can mold into a happier ending of that cherished memory I'm not sure that this wasn't planned more. It's all a bit too convenient.
I don't understand why the plan couldn't have been planned and fleshed out after that first dinner. I mean, you have real life examples of serial killers, like John Wayne Glover, who didn't start serial killing until 56 years old with wife and kids. I'll even say you kind of answered your own question here: Nikos has spent years of his life trying to live a hetero-normative life and it's not worked out. He's telling his favorite story again and Andrew acts receptive to the story and when Nikos pushes the boundary by suggesting it to Andrew, Andrew is again receptive. Nikos then starts orchestrating things to push things in the direction he wants.
I dunno. To me, that background doesn't seem too far fetched. It honestly just reminds me of anytime someone is trying to come out or reveal something private about themselves to a friend/family/partner. You test the waters to see how they respond to a similar story (Andrew finds the crossdressing story hilarious), you make a suggestion and see if they'd be receptive to trying it as well. The part that gets extremely immoral is escalating it unprompted (Nikos immediately starts kissing and does a fake proposal to Elena), and then continuing to escalate without permission (all the surgeries and such).
I mean, plenty of planning is still involved. I would just argue, some of the theories regarding when the planning started would require borderline psychic levels of knowledge, where as if we narrow down and reduce how much was preplanned, I think the sequence of events can still work.
I'll interpret that as the physical transformation was surgical and not magical. I'll argue that the surgeries were magic-like in their unrealistic effectiveness, perfection, and recovery times, but if Melissa is to be trusted, no magic was involved in that part of the story. Now, that doesn't rule out supernatural or magical stuff for the rest of the story, just not the physical transformation that was surgery based.
To be honest, I think that's an overly generous interpretation. That would be like having a murder mystery and the readers are theorizing that the person was killed by being pushed out an airplane, and the author was like "no deaths by falling". But then it turns out they were pushed out an airplane and the author says "it wasn't the fall that killed them, it was hitting the ground".
I recall Melissa previous saying she was inspired by Sherlock Holmes, and a common theme in those stories is that stuff seems supernatural and could have only happened via something not of this world, but the reveal is that those things were in fact "real."
Once you eliminate the impossible, whatever remains, no matter how improbable, must be the truth.
That said, Melissa has her own interpretations on what these categories mean. She insisted that there's no mind alteration. I'm not sure I consider the "method acting lock" to not be mind alteration (or being drugged/memory loss). But I suppose I can see the distinction, even if I do think that's being slightly manipulative/selective in the definition of mind alteration.
Every action has worked in favor of feminizing Andrew despite how low the odds should have been if this story is free of any outside influence
Look, I'll be (and have been) the first person to be critical of this story when it fails to stand up to scrutiny. As I think I've said before, this story has repeatedly invited speculation, and as such, it requires the details to line up so that the revealed answer is able to satisfy that speculation.
But I have to say, I do find some of these questions to be more of a nitpick. The business meeting
already didn't go to plan. That's
why Nikos broke Joel's glasses and then later Elena got drugged. If Elena wasn't charming enough or whatever, then we would have just scene an alternate way the events played out. It's not unreasonable to think Nikos was confident enough in his own charisma that he could come up with something to excuse his wife. Which is again, why I think he's clearly the bad guy. He's confident enough that he thinks he can pull off showing off his nephew-in-law as his wife, but when it comes to coming up with an excuse so that Elena isn't expected to be around for the next few weeks, he has nothing?
What if "roofied" Andrew didn't agree to everything that the doctor said (assuming he was legit)? Or if the doctor had noticed that Andrew was "roofied"?
Again, that's
why he was roofied. If Andrew didn't agree, or if the doctor noticed something was wrong with Andrew, then you can just roll the dice again with a different doctor. Or pay off the doctor. The plan not working as originally intended wouldn't have caused everything to fail. At worst, it would have been an inconvenience.
The call from James to remove Marina and let Joanna interfere, was that just perfect timing and more bad luck for Andrew?
If Joanna was waiting for an opportunity, then it's not really "luck". An opportunity opened and Joanna took it. It's not like if Marina didn't receive a call, there would have been absolutely no way for Joanna to intervene. Marina could have at any time needed to use the restroom, or worst case scenario, Joanna just waltzes in, strikes up a conversation, and drugs Elena discretely.
Alternatively, we already established that Joanna is married to Gjoka, who was the one tailing and encountered James. James doesn't need to be in on the conspiracy to be manipulated to be useful to it. If Joanna arranged James to arrive that day, and since Nikos owns the hotel, it wouldn't take much to make sure the hotel calls Marina sometime during the visit to the doctor.
I have to admit, I'm not sure what you're trying to argue here. I'm not saying I think this theory would make it into a good story, or that I like that direction. I have complaints about the quality and pacing of the writing. I've said before that I think there's some sloppy characterization. At this point, I'm just mainly here to hopefully get some hot renders of Marina and I'm curious about what Melissa has in mind. But outside of my preferences, I've tried to make a good faith argument for what could be happening in the story.