Hey! I'm just an observer. I have no set preference in "that" debate.
It just seems to me there is an ongoing "tug-of-war" between devs and patrons. Many patrons believe they deserve a certain fetish in a game as part of fan-service. The non-NTR patrons have been numerous enough, intense enough, to get their way. Who knows what's next for fan-service? Of course, the devs and patrons will sort things out for themselves.
I am a writer (short stories). If anyone tried to tell me what-to-put-in and what-to-leave-out, there would be no chance. Then again, I want no part of monthly pledges (from either side), but I see the dilemma for devs.