There's the blue slime and even she asks permission to peg you. On one hand I agree with you, on the other hand the dev needs to also think about including controversial stuff by default carefully, best way to deal with this in spicy games is to have an option for turning it on or off overall, for the whole game. Either in options or when you start a new game. Asking permission from the player before scenes kind of kills the femdom vibe for me. "uwu may I please dominate you teehee~?" But then again you need to understand that lot of people may not want to see the content, so it's probably not the focus for now.