I agree that it's a bit disappointing that the girl isn't a virgin, because the first sex experience leaves an imprint (e.g. shaping further preferences), so it's better to be deflowered by the man you would spend your life with.
Where did you find this bit of lore? So you want her to be a virgin because that way she doesn't know any better and thinks you're a good lover whether you are or not? Sounds a bit insecure to me. I'd rather be with a woman who makes an informed decision to be with me rather than one borne of ignorance and inexperience.
Where did you find this bit of lore? So you want her to be a virgin because that way she doesn't know any better and thinks you're a good lover whether you are or not? Sounds a bit insecure to me. I'd rather be with a woman who makes an informed decision to be with me rather than one borne of ignorance and inexperience.