I would request that the developer provides a very simple toggle to switch on or off fetishes in the main menu. This way the players that don't want or like the fetishes don't have to have them in their game, it also satisfies those that do. It's a win/win for everyone. Those that have switched the toggle off for example with stupid enforced ava/james scene, it is simply skipped and the event never even existed. In an ideal world, the developer would have created something wholesome to replaced what fetish(es) was skipped. But while that would be fantastic, the dev doesn't even need to do that, if it's beyond him, he just does what I said, cause the game to skip/scene/event with the fetishes in it.
Not putting in a toggle to switch those fetishes off is really lazy from the developer, and bad form. A simple skip / even / scene never happened involving those fetishes. Everyone wins because those that do want the fetishes, it's there for them, those that don't, it's blocked off entirely by being skipped / never existed. Then the game continues, but there should be multiple toggles if the developer wants to add them, pissing off half the player base is never a good idea. I wouldn't be surprised if some of the devs patrons have stopped subscribing to him for this behavior, it's like he doesn't care what people want / think. Adding any enforced fetish scenes into any game, is very bad form, in this case, it's easy to understand why people say the game has gone downhill particularly if they where not expecting it to happen.
Fetishes should always come with a toggle on or off. If the dev is too lazy, to do that, then he should significantly reduce the fetishes he wants in the game, and then as above..not just skipped, but it never happened. Everyone is happy and it's win/win for the developer.