I hear you, but selfish is what people are. Survival and reproduction is what society and more importantly life is built on. Men take care of the survival part of the family and women take care of the reproduction part of the family. At least that's how it used to be. At the crux of it, we are just doing what evolution and society shaped us to do, and sometimes that creates a disruption in the self. Men revolt to not be in this image of a "MAN" and women do the same. I do agree, I wouldn't wish it upon people as well, but at the same time, Vivian does show signs where she wants hutch to be a bit authoritative or at least a little assertive, he also doesn't know shit about what his wife likes or wants or cares for. Not to mention he is fucking sex aversive like you lost your job, wouldn't you want to like to have a release by fucking your woman a couple of times. Of course, we don't know what's he usually like or what's the normal family dynamics, but in those 5 days there was no sign of love or appreciation towards her or even the son. And forget all of this, here is where it all begins and is also the craziest part. While not only being not understanding of his woman, this dude doesn't even know that he is doing a poor job at his work by not sensing he is losing clients and might lose his job and also not creating a backup position with money saved or a job he could for the time being thereby putting his family in trouble. For all the talk of Christian saying hutch is a numbers guy as if like painting him to be a nerd, he isn't even an intelligent nerd. And buying a car for Vivian, who clearly didn't like the one, but fine whatever, but how about one that fucking doesn't suck. All I am saying is not only this dude is not authoritative or at least a little assertive or even understands his wife's needs, he is clearly shit at his job and for a nerd he has no backup plans of any sort. And that is precisely where the game begins, him losing the job and the wife sensing that she is gotta be the one guiding him and the family through this. And Christian is everything hutch at this moment isn't. From a show of appreciation of her beauty, buying her a dress, clearly expressing desire for her, very good at his job, while having a collected head of knowing what he is doing. But it all starts at that place where the near survival of the family, the house, the car, the education was all put in danger and Christian is the one going to save them from the situation. Maybe I am talking nonsense, or maybe I am not. I dont know. I am way too drunk to be writing this, LMAO.