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DarkArchon

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This is true for older women. As older woman is getting, she's getting less and less compliments and interests from men(which for men is different). Competing with younger girls is exhausting and it's not easy constantly taking care of yourself to look and feel better just to be desirable again. Men are valued for status(money), women for youth which is hardcore unfair truth.
You are describing the general shallowness of society, particularly western society. Valuing a person for either youth or money exemplifies how selfish people are. I enjoy the game, My Husband's Boss, but I would not wish the scenario on real people. I know it happens, but I still would not wish it on people. Speaking of the game, if Hutch hooked up with Addison, that would be the exact scenario you describe, "Competing with younger girls..." The game seems to be going in a different direction considering that Hutch makes no attempts to reciprocate Addison's affection, but that would be the kind of situation that would make a wife of 22 years in her 40s insecure. Her husband being attracted to a younger, and perhaps more attractive woman. By the way, when it comes to infidelity in real life, I don't think a wife's infidelity is any worse than a husbands. Betrayal hurts men and women.
 
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You are describing the general shallowness of society, particularly western society. Valuing a person for either youth or money exemplifies how selfish people are. I enjoy the game, My Husband's Boss, but I would not wish the scenario on real people. I know it happens, but I still would not wish it on people. Speaking of the game, if Hutch hooked up with Addison, that would be the exact scenario you describe, "Competing with younger girls..." The game seems to be going in a different direction, considering that Hutch makes no attempts to reciprocate Addison's affection, but that would be the kind of situation that would make a wife of 22 years in her 40s insecure. Her husband being attracted to a younger, and perhaps more attractive, woman. By the way, when it comes to infidelity in real life, I don't think a wife's infidelity is any worse than a husband. Betrayal hurts men and women.
I hear you, but selfish is what people are. Survival and reproduction is what society and more importantly life is built on. Men take care of the survival part of the family and women take care of the reproduction part of the family. At least that's how it used to be. At the crux of it, we are just doing what evolution and society shaped us to do, and sometimes that creates a disruption in the self. Men revolt to not be in this image of a "MAN" and women do the same. I do agree, I wouldn't wish it upon people as well, but at the same time, Vivian does show signs where she wants hutch to be a bit authoritative or at least a little assertive, he also doesn't know shit about what his wife likes or wants or cares for. Not to mention he is fucking sex aversive like you lost your job, wouldn't you want to like to have a release by fucking your woman a couple of times. Of course, we don't know what's he usually like or what's the normal family dynamics, but in those 5 days there was no sign of love or appreciation towards her or even the son. And forget all of this, here is where it all begins and is also the craziest part. While not only being not understanding of his woman, this dude doesn't even know that he is doing a poor job at his work by not sensing he is losing clients and might lose his job and also not creating a backup position with money saved or a job he could for the time being thereby putting his family in trouble. For all the talk of Christian saying hutch is a numbers guy as if like painting him to be a nerd, he isn't even an intelligent nerd. And buying a car for Vivian, who clearly didn't like the one, but fine whatever, but how about one that fucking doesn't suck. All I am saying is not only this dude is not authoritative or at least a little assertive or even understands his wife's needs, he is clearly shit at his job and for a nerd he has no backup plans of any sort. And that is precisely where the game begins, him losing the job and the wife sensing that she is gotta be the one guiding him and the family through this. And Christian is everything hutch at this moment isn't. From a show of appreciation of her beauty, buying her a dress, clearly expressing desire for her, very good at his job, while having a collected head of knowing what he is doing. But it all starts at that place where the near survival of the family, the house, the car, the education was all put in danger and Christian is the one going to save them from the situation. Maybe I am talking nonsense, or maybe I am not. I dont know. I am way too drunk to be writing this, LMAO.
 

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Maybe I am talking nonsense
I wouldn't go that far. But you are writing like living in the 50ies at the latest and I'm not exaggerating. What you are saying has immanent logic (apart from falsities like Hutch having lost his job already or Christian acting without malice) but this is the logic of a world in which men have all the responsibility but also all the authority and women are obedient beauty and reproductive objects waiting to be protected and appreciated. You take the 100 percent responsibility of the man out of this social world and transfer it in the world of today without any regard for the fact that everything else around it has totally changed and he isn't the patriarch anymore. A guy like Hutch doesn't have any control over his corporate position, over sex or over consumption in his family (cause you are mentioning savings). He probably wasn't the one deciding the college career of the son either. He isn't even able to say to the wife stay at home when going to the boss dinner, not just because he is Hutch the individual but because in our society there is no such sentence: you stay at home acceptable to the wife anymore without a major conflict. I'm all for assertiveness etc. and I find Hutch weak but you have to adress these problems differently today.
 
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I hear you, but selfish is what people are. Survival and reproduction is what society and more importantly life is built on. Men take care of the survival part of the family and women take care of the reproduction part of the family. At least that's how it used to be. At the crux of it, we are just doing what evolution and society shaped us to do, and sometimes that creates a disruption in the self. Men revolt to not be in this image of a "MAN" and women do the same. I do agree, I wouldn't wish it upon people as well, but at the same time, Vivian does show signs where she wants hutch to be a bit authoritative or at least a little assertive, he also doesn't know shit about what his wife likes or wants or cares for. Not to mention he is fucking sex aversive like you lost your job, wouldn't you want to like to have a release by fucking your woman a couple of times. Of course, we don't know what's he usually like or what's the normal family dynamics, but in those 5 days there was no sign of love or appreciation towards her or even the son. And forget all of this, here is where it all begins and is also the craziest part. While not only being not understanding of his woman, this dude doesn't even know that he is doing a poor job at his work by not sensing he is losing clients and might lose his job and also not creating a backup position with money saved or a job he could for the time being thereby putting his family in trouble. For all the talk of Christian saying hutch is a numbers guy as if like painting him to be a nerd, he isn't even an intelligent nerd. And buying a car for Vivian, who clearly didn't like the one, but fine whatever, but how about one that fucking doesn't suck. All I am saying is not only this dude is not authoritative or at least a little assertive or even understands his wife's needs, he is clearly shit at his job and for a nerd he has no backup plans of any sort. And that is precisely where the game begins, him losing the job and the wife sensing that she is gotta be the one guiding him and the family through this. And Christian is everything hutch at this moment isn't. From a show of appreciation of her beauty, buying her a dress, clearly expressing desire for her, very good at his job, while having a collected head of knowing what he is doing. But it all starts at that place where the near survival of the family, the house, the car, the education was all put in danger and Christian is the one going to save them from the situation. Maybe I am talking nonsense, or maybe I am not. I dont know. I am way too drunk to be writing this, LMAO.
These roles are important in society, but today it doesn't work that way, despite the economic challenges that still exist, society has changed. And this role of the man providing and the woman staying at home to take care of the house and the children is something very different and a narrative from a time, even at that time there was a social class, racial and ethnic profile. The most common thing for a couple and family in history is to work together for their subsistence.
The issue here is not even these roles, but one more side of existence as an individual. What maintains a healthy relationship? It seems to me that there is a semiotics when these gender roles are mentioned in the comments, that just working for subsistence would be enough for both husband and wife to be satisfied, and it seems to have a much greater weight on the woman, she owes something to her husband, she has to be content and grateful for that alone, the sphere of affection in the relationship, of continuous maintenance in the relationship, is not addressed. Any human relationship, friends, work and family needs maintenance. Which in this case doesn't seem to be between the husband and wife in the game.
 

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Thank god the dev ignores them and just focuses on the game (y)
I have shied away from engaging in discussion in this thread recently because I was very active in discussing the AVN early after its release and do not care to speculate too much and retread the same possibilities over and over.

However, I would say the opposite of what you did: It's a good thing that the dev has not ignored these discussions. Rather, he periodically has interacted with members and has even said that some speculations have been uncannily close to what he has in mind (which ones? nobody knows...). At the same time, several of us have urged the dev to stick to the plan he has in mind and not be swayed much (if at all) by what he reads here, and thus for the most part the discussions here while being stimulated by the content of the AVN are not intended to influence its outcome (unless the dev favored an idea enough to decide to implement it in the story, though again, not expected).
 

caleb100

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One of the users on this forum has a GIF made from images of this game. I’ve forgotten the username, so I can’t ask directly. I couldn’t find these images in version 0.2 of the game, and they’re not included in the teaser collection for the upcoming update either. Are there more of these images out there, are they fan-made?

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One of the users on this forum has a GIF made from images of this game. I’ve forgotten the username, so I can’t ask directly. I couldn’t find these images in version 0.2 of the game, and they’re not included in the teaser collection for the upcoming update either. Are there more of these images out there, are they fan-made?

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They are "previews" from the dev posted in this thread (or maybe in the "show off your Daz skills" thread). I say "previews" in quotes because they are not necessarily from the game. They might be test images, or discarded ideas, for instance. At the moment, I would say their provenance in that sense is unconfirmed, but that all are made by the dev.
 
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Xocopin

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One of the users on this forum has a GIF made from images of this game. I’ve forgotten the username, so I can’t ask directly. I couldn’t find these images in version 0.2 of the game, and they’re not included in the teaser collection for the upcoming update either. Are there more of these images out there, are they fan-made?

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These are just preview images of what will be in the next update.
 

caleb100

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They are "previews" from the dev posted in this thread (or maybe in the "show off your Daz skills" thread). I say "previews" in quotes because they are not necessarily from the game. They might be test images, or discarded ideas, for instance. At the moment, I would say their provenance in that sense is unconfirmed, but that all are made by the dev.
Thank you (y)
 

lolo540

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the dev has not ignored these discussions. Rather, he periodically has interacted with members and has even said that some speculations have been uncannily close to what he has in mind (which ones? nobody knows...).

At the same time, there have been so many theories in the last four months that there may well be one that comes close!
Only the deep state conspiracy hasn't been mentioned!
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