Let's look at the reality of female nature, Vivian's nature, through what the Bible revealed about women, as God tried to warn men to grow two eye's on the back of their heads when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex.
Adam and Eve are sitting in the garden of Eden gazing up into the heavens, they can see all of Gods creation, when Adam turn's to Eve and says
" Eve isn't this amazing, God has given us life, God has given us everything that we desire, we have all that we'll ever need, we are immortal and are at one with God and Gods mind, we know his plan, isn't this devine"
To which Eve replays
" ahhh, it's still not enough "
Point being lads, men are like loyal puppies and women are scheming cats. women in general ( if they're going to be honest) don't give a f%£k about you, never have and never will, they don't give a fuck and your problem's, ( Hutch) they are agents of chaos, addicted to drama like drugs addicts are to their next hit ( Vivian). Women now-a-days aren't interested in building anything with men, they wait at the Finnish line to pick the winner ( Chris).
When most women marry they marry their second or third choices, they marry for all the wrong reasons.
You as a man, could be a six foot, tall dark and handsome bastard, half a monk and half a James Bond special forces operator, that show's up at all the exact times, whispering all the exact word's into her ear's exactly the way she read in the last romance novel or ROM com that she's watched and it still wouldn't be enough
You could give her everything that she ever desired, the money, the perfect house, in the perfect location, the two best sports cars that money can buy and the the 2.5 kids and jet setting holidays all over the world, and she will quite happily burn it all to the ground, in order to feel good, just for a few hour's, meaning, if a twat, a loser, who doesn't give a fuck about her or what she thinks or wants shows up, looking OK but is armed to the theeth with all the right moves and all the right words that make her FEEL good, just for a few hours, her panties will dropped quicker that a nuclear weapon and she will blame you.
Remember, women are emotion machine's that run on FEELINGS, there is no logic to anything they do or say, they want that alpha male ( that bad boy) Chris, that will take her on an emotional rollercoaster ride, that will psychology fuck her up for the rest of her life but she won't care as long as somewhere in experience of that ride she got to FEEL alive ( Vivian)
Hutch is a good man, family man, thoughtful, caring hard working and a loving father and husband
Vivian is a typically modern day, deluded and entitled feminist slut, who is bored with life, bored with hutch and her border with her marriage and she is seeking an escape route, to FEEL good and she thinks she found it in Chris. What Vivian is doing is not out of love for her husband or her family ( that's the lie she told hutch and herself) in order to cope with being a entitled slag, Vivian is doing what she wants to do but she's trying to frame it as a selfless act of good intentions to help her husband, which is far from the truth, Chris is exciting, Chris is unpredictable, Chris is dangerous, Chris has social clout and influence, and what she's not telling hutch is that Chris has a bigger dick.
Vivian will bang Chris, she sleep with all of Chris client's, half Hutch's office colleges and the twins, she more than likely fuckef some of her students and in the end She will blame hutch, because that's who she really is a self serving narcissist
