To please both sides you would need to make that a route option otherwise in tug of war one side was going to lose.
Wholesome vanilla doesn't like sprinkles of prostitution, rape, voyeurism, or sharing in their waifu simulators.
NTR lovers like the nuance of other men playing with the girls or they get abused into submission.
If it wasn't for CollectiveShit and the banking overlords a simple solution would be either to treat her kindly or neglect her like when the option was presented to save her which didn't do anything... Seeing as there was a cheat code named shesallmine should give the hint many players wanted her all for themselves.