Ill try to help since so many questions.
Cemetery is bottom left of new neighborhood near guy waiting for bus. Go all the way left in the forests and there will be a farm. Bottle is in a box near house (top left of map). Get milk from horses. Buy root from homeless guy near Sarahs house.
Animal bones are in forest. Flour is in bakery or cafe where you can work. Drugs in pharmacy.
For baby maker hair go to moms room at night. For cousins hair go upstairs in aunts house in Midtown, cousin is in room on the left. Buy her dress from clothing store in new neighborhood.
For virgin talk to the blonde boy in recess and help him find stuff (need to do it about 10x).
Brenda will then be waiting outside the school near bus stop, talk to her. Go to cemetary at night and talk to guard.
To distract cemetary guard talk to tranny outside hornet bar. I only wish we did not turn her into lesbian grandma haircut