it's seem i'm stuck, i got mary,zoe,grace 1 cor stafe and maid 2 cor stage. i can't click that event in kitchen in early afternoon, i did use cheat and make aff 999 donno if that broken game for me? or are i just missing something
That definitely broke the game, for sure. The way the game appears to be coded, the events trigger once your affection with a character is at a specific level. I imagine there are probably caps to how high affection can go until you actually trigger an event, and setting affection to 999 would almost certainly be way past that cap.
If you intend to cheat and modify affection, you'll need to do it in relatively small increments. Use the phone to find out what level of affection you need to trigger a character's event, use the console to set their affection to that level, then go trigger the event, rinse and repeat.