Ah, so you're lesbian scenes only when you're playing the lesbian and self-insert that way. But you're not into lesbian scenes when you self-insert as a guy?
Uh-huh... So sometime your bi-sexual and other times not and it's 'annoying' for you as an individual when someone interrupts your self-insertion...
Well, some of us like some scenes regardless of who the MC is, and it's a bit confusing to try to understand when some have some arbitrary mental switch they flip where sometimes they feel like a man or a woman. There's absolutely nothing wrong with someone who can flip that switch, just know that "most people" probably don't play games that way. Expecting a dev to cater to a single individual's psyche is a bit absurd, and games will either have content or they won't *regardless* of who the MC is in the story.