How many events were before that one though?
While I don't remember how long exactly, let's look at the ones we have. Of the main girls, we have Fanora, Naira, and Jade.
Fanora, a bit of a rebellious teen, trying to get out from under her family's oppressive attitude, species seems not too sexually repressed, or at least her family doesn't, she was just waiting for someone she loved. Took a while to unlock, IIRC. To me, this was the most normal teen romance arc, much less of the mythic stuff involved.
Naira, a nymph, her species is all about sex, she has been holding herself back, just waiting for the right guy to come along, and even then, it took a while before she was willing to have sex with him, especially considering her species.
Jade, a homeless girl, who the MC gave a lot of money to, without asking for anything in return, then he helped her get a job, and then a place to live, and only then did she actually have sex with him. Before that, when she got the interview, she liked him enough for him to 'pet' her (when in dog form), and then after she got it, enough to play with her 'toy', and it was only once she was independent (job and place to live), did she have sex with him (or do anything for him, honestly). She didn't want to feel like he was giving her money for sexual favors, or at least that is how I see it.
But all of these followed pretty normal sex progression to me. You get to know each other, you date, you have some foreplay events, and then you have sex. Maybe that is just me...
Also, as a side note, I would also call girls having sex toys they play with as being pretty "true to reality" as well. But again, maybe that is just me... Anyone else want to chime in on that?
Sex toys are very common for women, and the battery powered ones tend to be named, B.O.B.
I have dated several girls/women who already had toys stashed away, for when they were needed or when they were not in a relationship.
I know one girl, who admitted to having lost her hymen to a hair brush in the shower, because she wanted to be able to enjoy her first time having sex, which makes perfect sense to me.
Get the painful part out of the way, so that the first time is more pleasurable.
The first time is supposed to be special, for both the man and woman, and for the guy it normally is, because it feels good.
Unless he misfires and makes a mess in his pants.
For the woman though, the pain takes away from the pleasure, and makes it less special than it could have been for her.
Which is why I thought the hair brush in the shower was such a good idea, because making love is all about each person bringing pleasure to their partner. which makes it far more memorable, and pleasurable.
Women who have their hymens broken during sex the first time, rarely ever enjoy the sex, and it would spoil it for me, knowing that she did not enjoy it as much as I did.
Which may well be why most game devs do not emphasize the pain and blood, and focus on the pleasure of sex.
Also, a huge reason would be, if you pay attention to the graphics in the games, they reuse images over and over again, and just change the text for the scene. Text is different for the first time, second time and sometimes the third time that they have sex, but the images remain the same.
You don't want the girl looking like she is in agony every time, and the blood scene would be a one time use image, so it is not nearly as useful to the dev in later scenes.
More work for a one time use image, and it can take a long time for devs to render each and every image.
Guys who fuck for their own pleasure, get very bad reputations with the ladies, and promote the sale of batteries, because they finished before the woman is satisfied.
Which is why those single women own the toys, because when dating, you find out the hard way, what the other person is like in bed.
And one or two orgasms, if they can get even that, is never enough for a woman to be satisfied.