Yes but in this game it seems like 100% of the woman has no hymen or any pain doing their first time, which makes it unrealistic which ruins the experince of the story.
Playing with a toy is still sex in my view, its a sextoy not a kids toy and a dildo has the same effect as a real dick.
I will agree that only using a toy a person is still a virgin, but this is a visual novel and i feel it failed big time creating a virgin vibe in the scenes ive seen so far.
First i saw was MC that slams hes dick in and the girl loves it and cums it makes it unrealistic not only is it very rare to cum the first time and also its normal to have a little pain.
Second virgin i saw, she did say ouch after MC barely put the head in, and thats after MC has slamed a dildo in which caused 0 pain, stuff like that makes it to unrealistic.
And to answer your question, its not the pain or the blood but its the knowing your the very first who has sex with the girl that is the kink and for a visual novel there has to be some kind of proff to that or it dosent work, no pain no blood just pure pleasure makes the virgin scenes unrealistic and without it she could be a hooker who had sex 400 times already, if its just a text saying "i am a virgin" it means nothing could be a lie which is more likely then no pain no blood and only pleasure.
Hope i explained my self so you might understand what i mean
Also i would say that if they have a hymen its a sure way to say its a virgin, or 98% sure, since i dont think now a days there are many that get it redone by surgery.
And thanks for the info about f95, i have been wondering for months who sets the tags i thought for sure it was the developer since i dident expect the crew of f95 to play 100% of all the games here to put tags in them selfs.
And yes they should have a deflower tag as well, it would be alot better then a virgin tag.