Follower allows a lot less freedom than NCC. You have to get certain events to progress the story. Reading your posts I don't think Follower is for you. Just go with the summary at the beginning of NCC.
In NCC most actions are optional, but as someone stated before you don't see early on what your choices might do. I replayed a lot of my playthroughs several times because i ended up where I didn't want to be. Working on a hintlist mainly for myself for that reason. So it probably isn't too helpful for someone who never played the game and it still is incomplete.
If you don't want to see other people fucking avoid Maud's parties and the porn career. At some points
HoneyGames already added an option to avoid seeing content, for example a video containing femdom which you might need to blackmail someone, if you so choose.
I have a question myself. Is it possible to upload for example a .txt via attach files or is it only for pictures and I have to use the allowed filehosts?
Because the lists get way too long to put it in a spoiler.