- Oct 21, 2022
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Your youtube video will be filled with people telling you that if she is unhappy get a fucking divorce. Dont cheat because you are bored. I don't connect with either the guy or the girl. I am playing a game. I am also a dude, so I see things from the perspective of a guy. I am not going to sympathize with the girl because her marriage is unhappy, there are way to fix that that don't involve cheating.Let me ask you a question then, why don't you connect with the FMC?
I'll give you a hypothetical scenario, say a husband and wife got married straight out of high school and she was a very reserved and shy person and went along with the marriage because she had gone through her life putting others first, and having difficulty saying no to people.
She finds herself in an unhappy marriage, and finds herself asking if this is all there is to her life?
Then outta nowhere here comes a blonde haired, tanned, buff dude whose attentions makes her feels things she hasn't felt before, things she's only heard about other people feeling in movies or on tv.
She's barely known romance before, but at the same time, she is married so she's torn. The fundamental question though is - should she stay in a marriage she's unhappy in? Is it fair to herself? Is it fair to the husband/MMC? Should they have children who'd be in an unhappy home?
Her whole life had looked planned and miserable up until blonde NTR guy appeared and began to open her eyes (and legs.)
As she gets corrupted, she enjoys everything in her life more besides just the sex, meals, socializing, exercising, caring about her appearance again, she learns or rediscovers confidence, she's happier with every passing day.
Now take all of that, and put it up against vanilla MC guy who just wants everything to stay exactly the same forever, his wife is miserable in the marriage but she's too polite and reserved to ever say anything.
If MC were to win in this scenario, the FMC would lose, their future children would lose, the NTR guy would lose, and the audience/us would lose.
I'd really like to do a much longer essay or maybe youtube video about the topic because I get the feeling a lot of people who aren't into NTR might like it if they just changed their perspective. If you approach NTR focused on the MMC's thoughts and feelings, you're going to have a bad time and doing it completely wrong. If you approach NTR focused on the woman's thoughts and feelings, you'll have a really really good time. I mean her thoughts are way sexier than the MMC's anyway, and only get sexier as the story goes on.
After all it's the woman who has the real development in any NTR story, the husband is just a supporting character, and if people would stop (god I hate this term) self-inserting, and especially self-inserting into the wrong character, they'd have a much better time.
But I am playing a NTR game, so I am expecting things to go bad. I play with the mindset that I want the guy to have his life turn to shit, its just what gets me off in these types of games. The girl need to slowly fall for the other guy, who is objectively worse. If like in your scenario the MC is a wet noodle and the girl is better off with the gigachad, that doesn't do it for me. I want some fat bastard to steal the girl from the perfect gigachad who the right for her. The guy loses, the girl loses, the only winner is the fat loser. That's what I like.
Now I don't want to disparage other people's fetishes. If you self insert as the MC, or the FMC, or whatever, you do you. But what you are describing is not really gonna be found in NTR. You would be better off looking at some vanilla tags where the girl is the MC and gets swept off her feet by a white knight kind of deal.