There is no question about mom getting fucked by bully. And there is no question about people liking different games be it NTR or not. The last is a given.
The guy is writing about your cat or dog running away to your neighbour or your mom starting a new healthy relationship and cuddling with you less because of that, or your pal standing you up instead of having a couple of beers with you, which is a joke.
I'm not interested in dragging this permeasive NTR, dogs and cats discussion any more with you or you deranged followers, but be so kind to indulge me as there is one thing I'm curious about.
So in this post I'm citing you're responding to a person stating that FMC games are not netorare and clearly disagreeing, i.e. you consider FMC games to be Netorare.
Quite typically in FMC games with some boyfriend or husband in the background or as a side char you - roleplaying and controlling FMC - initiate interactions and cheating with bull(s) by taking some jobs, agreeing to some proposals etc. How does this initiative and decisions that you make yourself coexist in your head with the part of Netorare definition meaning 'to be taken'? By some external force and unbeknown to you ('sleeping' part, if this etimology part is correct). With cats and dogs at least there is that external force (by definition and logic, something that you don't want to lose can be taken from you only by external force with it's own agenda, e.g. neighbour) taking them away with treats.
sure first some clarifications. I do not have followers. i am not an influencer. if you see some likes on my posts it is problably just people that agree with me. if i had followers the post someone made on another tread calling me a creep for daring to ask if the developer was a woman would have had more than 1 report
but there it is that post with 1 repost insulting me to my face. anyways moving on.
what you loose on the female MC games, happens to the woman usually they are corruption focused and what is lost is dignity.
just like those hentai images where a man has their penis size compared to another. it is a netorare that is not about fucking other people is about loosing your dignity. in one case is the woman loosing her self respect and falling into corruption. on the other case is the man loosing his status as masculine and his partner in the process but the focus is on the man since those dick comparison images are usually POV ones.
also categorically since the partner that appears in 1 page is still part of the narrative techically is NTR. just like I have read many manga tagged as bestiallity and just happen to have a dog fucking a girl in the tiniest corner of a montage page just to show that she was tortured in brutal ways. but the sistem is like that tiny dog in the corner = bestiality tag. husband only appears in name NTR.
here is a recommendation for NTR with focus on the man, the first episodes focus mostly entirely on the man POV with several images of him just looking at a door. "Kanojo wa Nerawareteiru"
also to finish netorare can change inflection to mean diferent things
NETORASE the RASE inflection means to let be in this case let be taken something similar to swapping in english. of straight cuckolding.
NETORI the ri infrlection strenghten the meaning of taking. in this case is from the bad guy POV as he takes the girl. (there are some good reads of this genre)
NETORARE is the general term and it is asumed it includes the specific ones.