I am wondering what type of ntr would be 100% reasonable choice. I guess something that just makes sense - its more important than sex? Simplifying: "fuck me or the world will end".
Though then I guess the ntr isnt really fun, because there if it makes sense, there isnt really much betrayal.
Overall, what is peoples favorite type of "trigger"? If its just heroine being a slut, I usually see people complaining that she fell too easily. If its blackmail, it is usually accompanied by complaining about heroine being dumb etc. If its through lies, its dumb again. If its hypnosis, its cheap. Personally I feel like some form of coercion (be it solving couples issues for sex, blackmail, threatening etc) that usually develops into actually liking the act is usually the best way. You then have the disgust toward villain, struggle and eventual corruption. Its pretty satisfying imo. But it doesnt feel "perfect".
I also kinda like hangovercats use of corruption. Where its coercion combined with games. So you have the aspect of the heroine overestimating herself, or her partner that leads to the acts. You dont just have the blackmail by itself, but its a risk and reward game that she ends up losing. Rules get established in their twisted game. It also makes things fresh from other classic corruption schticks.
I think the best NTR (for me) are actually a combination of things. First I like hidden cheating NTR, so there is that. Within that subgenre I think the best versions are:
- coercion that doesnt got too far or is too blatant (it has to be reasonable, not "suck my dick or ill show people a recording of your fucking the MC")
- it has to be explained well within the mind of the FMC and make sense when it comes to the characters of MC and FMC.
- the bull actually seducing the FMC without her being a slut, so either the bull making her discover her nymphomaniac tendencies (but limited to him as a partner) or actually making her fall for him, but in this case bull should still be an asshole, that is a key element for me, I think if bull was a nice and all around better guy it would make for a less enjoyable NTR story and feel more like normal cheating
- unrequited love (MC likes FMC never dared to tell her, is a bit oblivious. extra-sweet if she liked him too but never told him)
- MC neglecting FMC (or at least her sexual desires) out of ignorance and slowly loosing her. often that also involves FMC not being aware of her desires until bull or some other event makes her realize them
- outside circumstances demanding FMC to engage with bull (but only to a degree and then it starts snowballing)
- bull tricking FMC without her noticing it - so no direct coercion/blackmail
- MC not being strong enough (but not a total looser. like for example being a good mage/healer or strategist but lacking that physical build) and FMC realizing she wants a strong man (just a side element most of the time, and its better as a side element anyway, its like a cherry on top)
absolute turn-offs for me:
- NTS
- slut / town bicycle
- rape (in most cases)
- stupid "nerd/otaku" trope (idk why its just meh)
- blatantly dumb FMC
- FMC that is too meek and submissive from the start
- dumb MC
- absolute looser MC who has nothing going for him (pathetic MC basically)