You're definitely in the Minority but surely not alone with this Opinion! I also like ORS way more than GGGB because of the realistic writing of Characters and Scenarios. ORS is really a good Game for me and not just porn in form of a Game like most of the Games I played here before (but of course I also love the Porn and most of the Scenes are really hot but if I want mostly extreme Stuff than I just play GGGB again).Feels like I'm the only person here that wants just a nice normal romantic / casual relationship game that doesn't turn into some extreme scenario. The best part of the game is it feels fairly believable (if exaggerated) story that a group of young adults could find themselves in.
All in all I like this Game this much mostly because of the Reasons you stated in your Post.