ffive

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She cheated on him. Ian was never bad in bed, and Alison did say she asked Gillian about it. So you can rule out "not being satisfied". Gillian probably wanted more adventure in her life and committed to cheating. When a person does that, you can move on.
I'm not 100% sure, but from all the talks it seems that it could've been the case of relationship becoming a long-distance one for a while (with Ian in Baluart and Gillian in their home city) with the intention of Gillian eventually coming to Ian, but she's apparently got entangled with the new guy during that time apart. It's unknown if this separation was because Ian didn't want to follow Gillian back or some other scenario. Either way it's possible that was just a typical case of things not surviving a separation and/or vulnerability that comes from the partner not being there for you when needed, than Gillian looking for "more adventures" per se.

(plus, just because Ian wasn't bad in bed doesn't mean the new guy couldn't have been even better. :sneaky:
 

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I'm not 100% sure, but from all the talks it seems that it could've been the case of relationship becoming a long-distance one for a while (with Ian in Baluart and Gillian in their home city) with the intention of Gillian eventually coming to Ian, but she's apparently got entangled with the new guy during that time apart. It's unknown if this separation was because Ian didn't want to follow Gillian back or some other scenario. Either way it's possible that was just a typical case of things not surviving a separation and/or vulnerability that comes from the partner not being there for you when needed, than Gillian looking for "more adventures" per se.

(plus, just because Ian wasn't bad in bed doesn't mean the new guy couldn't have been even better. :sneaky:
in his dream she blame him for focusing on writting or hang out with his friend
 
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I'm not 100% sure, but from all the talks it seems that it could've been the case of relationship becoming a long-distance one for a while (with Ian in Baluart and Gillian in their home city) with the intention of Gillian eventually coming to Ian, but she's apparently got entangled with the new guy during that time apart. It's unknown if this separation was because Ian didn't want to follow Gillian back or some other scenario. Either way it's possible that was just a typical case of things not surviving a separation and/or vulnerability that comes from the partner not being there for you when needed, than Gillian looking for "more adventures" per se.
This. Long distance relationships rarely survive and people grow apart... "Far from the eyes far from the heart; long absent, soon forgotten".
 

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There's also another saying, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder". I suppose it depends on how strong the love is in either case.
Well, it's a combination of that and what other possibilities the person is presented with. Far easier to remain faithful when interesting, attractive people aren't drawing one's attention and actively working to get in your pants.
 

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There's also another saying, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder". I suppose it depends on how strong the love is in either case.
As is the case with any relationship, it's about communication. Good communication can overcome a lot of the problems that comes with long distance relationships. Obviously certain physical needs won't be met, but even still the are patches that can be applied until a couple can be together again.
 

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Far easier to remain faithful when interesting, attractive people aren't drawing one's attention and actively working to get in your pants.
This is why corruption and NTR works with attractive people who are evil. No one will be tempted to do immoral things when the person is physically repulsive. It's very difficult to resist to fall when you are attracted to a person who is bad.
 
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This is why corruption and NTR works with attractive people who are evil. No one will be tempted to do immoral things when the person is psychically repulsive. It's very difficult to resist to fall when you are attracted to a person who is bad.
LOL! I guess that's why good guys sometimes lose out cuz girls usually go for the badboy.
 

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LOL! I guess that's why good guys sometimes lose out cuz girls usually go for the badboy.
Eh, girls go for bad boys not only because they are attractive, mysterious, dangerous and unpredictable. It's because of the desire to tame them, hence the term I can fix him. Of course, it's proved that's usually only a fantasy and girls get burned.
 
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LOL! I guess that's why good guys sometimes lose out cuz girls usually go for the badboy.
Good guys and being bad looking ain't mutually exclusive. Same goes for bad guys and being attractive. Lots of bad guys that are repulsive. It's just that you usually don't hear about good guys that are attractive and treat their girls right and have a healthy relationship because there's no drama involved. And people love seeking and gossiping about drama.
 

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Eh, girls go for bad boys not only because they are attractive, mysterious, dangerous and unpredictable. It's because of the desire to tame them, hence the term I can fix him. Of course, it's proved that's usually only a fantasy and girls get burned.
I guess that's why Lena is having such a hard time with her break up with Axel. Even though, she's happy with her relationship with Ian and never experienced that kind of love before, (If that's the path your on).
 

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This is why corruption and NTR works with attractive people who are evil. No one will be tempted to do immoral things when the person is physically repulsive. It's very difficult to resist to fall when you are attracted to a person who is bad.
Yeah, the "human resources" meme is only funny because it strikes very close home. :sneaky:

Although on the other hand you have all these NTR games with Ugly Bastards and people clamoring for Lena to fuck Ed, so, ehh. Maybe some people are into being on the receiving end of that, too.
 
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