cheating is losing control, Ian is a good friend, but is not a good example of anything, the only thing i could feel for him is pitty, the men is a mess, there is no a one side open relationships, that is just a fancy way to say cheating xD, and u can argue than men have a worse time staying loyal than women, and from a biological point of view u are right, but that is the same reason men value loyalty more than anything, but u are missing the point, if u stay loyal that is something worth praising but if u cheat, u are still a piece of shit, doesnt matter if u are a men or a women, cheating is cheating. This is not about Mina either, she does cheat, and have his part of the blame too, but this is in no way the same circunstances, she is a "we are done" step away from ending her relationship, by the time she cheat the only thing that make her "Ian´s girlfriend" is the fact that they still didnt have a face to face conversation where she dumb his ass, also Mina is the only one trying during that relationship, we still dont know why dou, but she was trying, the other piece of shit without a real excuse in that mess is MC, cause that is ur best friend girlfriend, and that should be off limits, doesnt matter how hot she is, cause once again, loyalty, a men should not let his dick do the thinking. Mind u, im only saying this cause of u trying to put Ian in a pedestal while excusing all men on earth from ever cheating, i do not follow this "credo" "men should not let his emotion blah blah" that is hard to do, and im a lazy bastard with poor discipline.