If you read my first post on this track you'd note I already commented on the fastest way... FireI certainly don't feel attacked. In addition, I agree with you in most cases. I just don't agree here.
I'm not even saying that something really prevented women, maybe just prejudices and customs of the time. I'm just of the opinion that it wasn't common.
And to the game. A poor woman who takes care of her business (bakery, stables, mayorship, cooking drugs...) has 6 or more children. The father of these children is still whoring somewhere and making other children with other women. No help with kids or household. In addition, she has to be at his will at any time, if she is not, he will drug her with a cake. Tell me when does that poor woman have time to shave her bush?
Besides that deadbeat father of the village has lots of money, let him pay for whatever grooming services that might be required to maintain his harems standard of beauty.... If nothing else he can surely learn a fireball spell