Like I said, using a single term to cover netorare, netori, and netorase is a big mistake. By [correct] definition, netorare is the opposite of netori. Some might like netori, but hate netorare/netorase. Some might like netorare/netorase more than netori. The only common thing ia they all involve the love interest. Most of the people who hate NTR are actually hate netorare/netorase, but probably don't might netori. So, the umbrella term "NTR" might turn them away from what they might actually like. Most of the people who ask about NTR might be asking about netorare/netorase contents rather than netori contents.Netorase
In my opinion:
- Netorare/netorase: people who like to pimp their lover, or like to watch their lover have sex with other. Willingly or forcefully. These people don't might the below.
- Netori: dick king. No other dick should exist. These people might not tolerate the above.