Pet peeve moment. These stories have been bugging me with one thing recently. The not-a-virgin "virgin"... I am still a virgin, but, I have taken dozens of toys and a few fists and not to mention a base ball bat or two... so, take it slow at first!
With the caveat that only a human male penis insertion makes you lose your virginity there are quite a few more people on this earth who can claim virginity. Lesbians who have only had female lovers, women who love their pets, vagitarians who love fruits and vegatables, and the sporty baseball bat lovers.
I'm sorry devs, but if your girl uses dildos or more than one finger inside masturbating, or vegetables or what ever it is, they are no longer a virgin. That ship has sailed. It really destroys the whole, I deflowered this pristine woman thought when the lie of virginity is shattered when you decide it is time to confess that the vagina has in fact been stretched out long before my massive cock ever slipped in.
Pet peeve moment. People who view virginity as having an intact hymen bug me. Here is a quote from an actual OB-GYN:
"The hymen is not like a seal on a drink. Hymens come in various shapes and sizes. Some are wider and some are more narrow. Some will ‘break’ with first penetrative intercourse and some won’t. Some will break before or outside of intercourse. The state of the hymen is not evidence of sexual activity or lack thereof. The hymen is a membranous tissue at the opening of the vagina, and it can break or tear from activities other than sex, such as:
- Riding a bicycle
- Exercising at a high intensity
- Riding a horse
- Using a tampon
- Pushing during a constipated bowel movement
A woman who tears her hymen when she is not sexually active does not mean she is no longer ‘pure.'”
The hymen as a symbol of virginity, and the concept of "deflowering" is a misogynistic holdover from the times when women were literally property. The concept that a man can masturbate to the point of ejaculation, but a woman cannot insert anything and remain "pure" is borderline psychopathic. This line of thought is what leads to societies that practice removing women's clits so they cannot experience pleasure and remain pure forever.
Men don't have hymens and can be virgins. The idea that virginity is different for men and women is sexually unhealthy, according to actual experts on the subject.
I'm sorry incels, but if your girl needs to be a virgin for your pp to get big, you're a problem. Also, the first person you have sex with is not nearly as important as the final person you have sex with, a point I think this dev makes in one of his games (possible this one, IIRC).