- Sep 10, 2021
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I'd never have imagined that there could be such a thing as fetish-nationalism before I joined this site. I registered for the piracy, and for a long time blithely assumed the forums consisted of jaded perverts like myself going about their business of looking for more of whatever weird specific things get them off, amidst a general attitude of mutual indifference. Plus bug fixes or something. Then during a bout of insomnia I was like "what could all these posts possibly be about?" and stumbled head first into the NTR wars.It clearly wasn't meant as an attack on people who ARE emotionally invested, so there's no need to be defensive. There's also no need to present everything as a false dichotomy i.e. "if you don't think x, that means you think y!" Sometimes others' perspectives don't fit into our preconceived framing.
I think there are two additional factors in play with this particular kink. One is that it centers on a fairly common traumatic experience, and I suspect a lot of the people who can't seem to tolerate the slightest mention of an NTR path are reacting to a romantic betrayal in their past, at least in part.
There also seems to be some kind of an incel civil-war element on either side. Some of the nastier depictions and the more rabid opposition to any depiction whatsoever share a basic foundational loathing of women, and even greater contempt for men who're fool enough to feel something like affection for one. The issue of dispute seems to about the acceptable way to get a hate boner.