Good question, do you even want an answer ?its a sex game? why do people take it so seriously?
as for the scene at home???? i didnt see it nor did i see it in the gallery update
Sorry, joking, I think there can be many answers to this question, and more than one would be right (and more than one, wrong, of course), depending on the person, the game and situation.
Hopefully even people who take it a bit seriously are not going to flaming extremes, though even that, already happened in the past.
Maybe I can also be considered one of those taking it seriously - I don't take the game seriously itself, but when I reply about some subjects in the thread, I give real answers.
Though in game and real life, I have very different approaches - I don't mind Myriam getting drunk/smoked and screwed (insofar as I can avoid triggering the "addicted" status), though in real life I always declined such opportunities.