a bdsm test rated me mostly vanilla besides poly or exhibitionist, maybe that's why I don't see a reaction from my perspectiveI'd imagine that, in this setting, lesbianism isn't very common. Whether it's treated like in some places around the world today, who knows, but at the very least it's considered an unusual kink that people might be more willing to keep to themselves. Think of how someone in a more vanilla relationship might react if their partner discovers they've been looking at buttplugs on Amazon.