Petite isn't loli, Darja has small breasts but like, there are mature women out there who also have small breasts you know. Her behavior also doesn't really fit, she's a horny degenerate who just happens to be naive and with no sex-ed or experience, I've known people like that. She has loads of interactions with other characters and none of them remark on anything of the sort either. Then there's that this game has like a truck-ton of tags listed but loli isn't one of them and she's been in the game for a long time so the consensus is pretty clear.
This is true, but I mean it in the sense that you have just one tail so things you can do with it are more limited than if you had two limbs. With a pair of legs, you can do lots of poses, now imagine if you had just one - sure there's lots of ways to bend yourself, similar to how a snake can wrap itself around somebody, but it feels more limiting. Imagine how dancing would work having just a tail, there are just fewer gestures you can make, ballet wouldn't have the same elegance to it, you can't do the splits, etc.
I feel like that comes more from conventions, what do we expect rattling to mean? When a dog wags its tail, thats often a sign of happiness, but in a cat, it might be irritation. In a human, when you "rattle" or shake your legs, that is usually indicative of anxiety, it just doesn't make the same noise, but the action is similar, we just prescribe a different meaning to it. You could imagine a humanoid species where trembling legs mean something different, like arousal, but it's rarely seen because there are no parallels to it in real life that we can empathize with.
While I feel you can also just stick a foot up someone's ass, I concede that they have superior tongues, definitely the best thing about them in my opinion. I find the emphasis they put on saying words with an elongated "s" to be a little silly, but the length enables a diverse range of motion that a normal tongue can't do, so the appeal is very understandable.
Nothing wrong with it at all personally. Depending on your views, they are either in some sort of an afterlife so they have no reason to care what we think or say about them on Earth, or they just don't exist in which case you can't offend or hurt something that doesn't exist anymore. Reason we are respectful to the dead, the whole ritual and ceremony with burials and graves and so on, is done for respect of the living, people who grieved and cared about them, not the deceased. We do these things for our benefit, and I doubt anyone here is close friends with a Neanderthal.
Besides that, like I said we have mixed with them, so even if their species is extinct, some of their genes live on in us. They aren't just this weird distant species that has gone extinct, they are related to us, so we are not really disrespecting them any less than we are disrespecting ourselves. Even if you have 0% of their DNA, chances are you're instead related to another extinct homonid species, many of which we don't know anything about. While most humans are quite reserved and proper, as a species we're pretty freaky, if there's intelligent life out there it's only a matter of time before one of us will try to have sex with it.
