Mh... I think you onto something here.
Dont ge me wrong, I think I understand what you want to say but your english is a bit bumpy.
So If I understand it correctly, you think that since the game will have different people having sex but people will jump ship from the beginning, but if its portrayed in a good way, aka the girls who are fucking their BF/Husbands are weak/incapable doing their manly part and implied that MC will steal her away, these negative feelings will be less present and perhaps even encourage people to give it another try ?
Well...yes and no. I saw this method being tried out in Porn games, mostly VN, but sadly they didnt deliver. Last game I rememeber who tried it was
Twin Maniax but failed miserably with it because MC was just wachting like a beta and the girls enjoyed being fucked by the others. IMO this was the last straw people jumped ship.
However:
You mention Adult toons, I see this done perfectly in Manhwas, even
Harem manhwas too. If I could give a good example is "
Sextudy Group"(Still ongoing), "
She is Working Out" (Still ongoing) and a Doujinshi called "
Sex Friend" by
Makino Eki which has already 4 volumes and.
While
Sextudy Group is the best example I still want to give some more examples how things could go because like in
She is Working Out its not clear where it will go and
Sex Friend is similar.
Giving examples here for every each would take to much time so I will go with
She is Working Out because while not being the best example, I think it could be used as one if implimented correctly.
Well, what can I say about this red head in that toon ?
She is a side Character, probably a Harem member too BUT not only has she already a BF, she already had 2 sex scenes. Why is it not being hated ?
So what can we learn ? Its not automaticly that side characters having sex with other people have problems with, but how poorly implimented they are.
Studio Mystic, check this comment from this guy out and let me know what you think because I think he said something interesting. While I doubt this will a game for Harem fans like myself, I would enjoy seeing a game like this where you steal the girls from the other guys.