Have you considered that maybe, juuuuuuuuuust maybe, Alexia might not be quite happy about the whole Helayna thing?
Because the game does track Rowan/Alexia relationship score, and the funny thing is your wife did not consent to an Open Relationship.
Yes I did consider that, but it doesn't change the fact I on purposely held off on capturing the Raeve Keep for like 15 weeks till week 24 just to see if anything would happen between Rowan and Alexia and nothing happened. At least nothing happened in my normal played through. When I saved scummed 2-3 times to do an experiment to see where I just pressed the "Skip Week" button a bunch of times to see what events I would get through RNG, some Rowan x Alexia events fired. But when I went back to my save to actually play on, nothing ever happened.
Guess the RNG gods just weren't in favor of them boning in the real timeline of my play through. Cause what is the chance of a sex event for them firing off? I pressed skip about 5-8 times each time I ran the experiment and only in one of the 2-3 trial runs did I get the sex events... so it just seems to be the events have a very low chance of firing. In my normal play through at week 24 I had only slept with Jezara at the initial swear loyalty to the Twins event. Possibly Sheena, I think the Cla-Min events, and Clinoha events. None of these events ever indicated that Alexia was aware of any infidelity. And oddly enough during week 36 even after Heylana showed up the picnic sex scene fired. Just to clarify I used my week 24 save as the starting point of when I started to do the skip week experiments.
Which is why I asked early whether choosing to share the room with Alexia increase the chance of them having sex before Heylana shows up? Does sexing the other staff (Skodred, Clinoha, Cla-Min) in the castle without Alexia's knowledge reduce the chance of the Rowan x Alexia events from firing? Cause I can obviously tell that shes upset by Heylana when she shows up but what about before? And if she is upset about it then why did she decide to sex Rowan in week 36 during a picnic event. I am just trying to figure out how the RNG works and which scenes are pre-scripted to fire at certain intervals or triggers.