This actually makes a lot of sense to me, and helps explain my own inner conflict. I have been trying for years to play this game and Our Red String, but no matter how hard I try, I can't find them enjoyable, even though I know they are top quality.
I think the gender swapping multiple protagonist thing short circuits my brain so I can't relate to anyone and can't invest in the story. I don't expect my brain, or these games to change, so I can stop trying to play and not feel guilty.
Thank you for the assist. Everything is illuminated now.