Rather than quoting all the previous decision, I'm just going to name drop
Mfka5/
Big Green as the main ones I'm replying to.
First of all, you both might want to take the combativeness down a notch, less the mods come in to deal with it directly.
That aside, you know what else is harmful? Having your entire family murdered. I would even go so far as to say that it is way more traumatic than being cheated on. But it is still a very popular plot point in fiction. Where is the outcry about its depiction? No one sits down to a nice wholesome revenge action movie and then loudly complains online about the familicide in the inciting incident. (Note that I am being a bit hyperbolic here, obviously there is some small percentage of people that will complain about literally anything, the point is they are an insignificantly small number). It even shows up in otherwise "family friendly" media.
In fact I would posit that most media is about the charater's lives being ruined in some way. Generally speaking we are more interested in stories with high stakes. Thats why there aren't a lot of stories where the main confict is that the local grocery store was out f eggs. Generally speaking it has to be somethign that is ruinous of the characters life, at least from their perspective.
And it is even more egregious when, in cases like this game, the audience can choose for the event to happen and then get upset when it happens. Insert the self-inflicted sitck-in-bike-wheel meme. That said, from my understanding, that isn't what
DeemLeem12 was upset about with the Greyhide situation. He wasn't upset that he chose for Alexia to cheat he was upset with the results. He wanted there to be
more fallout from his choices, for his choices to have serious long term ramifications. Which is a valid stance to take.
However the argument agains irl harm is rediculous. By that logic the only thing that is harmful is direct harm. Oh your whole family was murdered? Just choose not to be sad/angry. It's not like
you were murdered, its all in your mindset bro. That's some psychopathic level of lacking empathy. If you are in complete and total control of your emotions at all times, good for you I guess. But while people are still responsible for the actions they takes, most people are not in control for how they feel in a given situation, and it takes them some time to work through their emotion even in the best cases.