Okay, you lost and you're wrong, I won and I'm right, or whatever, since you provided a right link. But I have a suspicion that you are using google translator or some other, which translates netorare as cuckoldry. And that translation is
totally wrong. Since there is simply no analog for this word in the English. To make the analogy clearer, there is a term like
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, it means "overwork death", there is no one word to describe this Japanese word. Just like 寝取られ (寝 (ne, “to sleep”) and 取られ (torare, passive form of the verb “to take”)) cannot be translated in one word. The whole point of netorare is someones's soulmate was taken from them while they were unaware or "asleep", metaphorically speaking.
Summary:
- The cuckold / cuckquean fetish is about cuck humiliation (the notorious NTR T2 fits here).
- The netorare fetish is about events (blackmail, fucked into submission, corruption, enemy conversion, mind break etc) that lead to betrayal. And there should always be a betrayal. So there's no way it could be non-consensual at the end.
So if someone is killed and their soulmate is fucked into submission, it doesn't count. Since a corpse can't be betrayed.
If someone was raped, that doesn't netorare either. Since this is some kind of victim-blaming of a rape victim for betrayal.
Can these fetishes be combined? Of course! I won't even deny that these fetishes are close to each other. But they are not the same thing.
You probably won't give a fuck, but if someone finds this text useful, that would be great. Also, I've now started ignoring you, so I probably won't see your reply. Have a nice day.